Updated September 17, 2026. Quick answer: yes, through Personal Choices, Alabama Medicaid’s self-directed (Cash and Counseling-model) option under the Elderly and Disabled (E&D) Waiver and other HCBS waivers. Most adult family members can be hired and paid to provide the care. A spouse can also be the paid caregiver.
How Alabama pays a family caregiver
| Program | Personal Choices, Alabama Medicaid’s self-directed (Cash and Counseling-model) option under the Elderly and Disabled (E&D) Waiver and other HCBS waivers |
|---|---|
| Can a family member be paid? | Yes. “It is just as important, and maybe more important, to set boundaries if you have hired a relative or friend to be your personal assistant.” |
| Can a spouse be paid? | Yes. “the official Spending Plan worksheet’s worked sample lists a paid worker’s Employee Relationship field as Spouse (employee name Betty Sample, Hourly Wage $13.00, Employer-Taxes-Exempt: Yes), on a plan whose Primary Waiver field is filled in as ED” |
Why the spouse question is different
Federal Medicaid rule treats a spouse (and a parent paying for a minor child) as a “legally responsible relative”, someone already assumed to owe the care for free, so paying them is barred by default. A state has to build an explicit exception into its waiver or state-plan option to pay a spouse at all; the rule for any other relative (an adult child, a sibling, a grandchild) is looser and usually allowed. That is why the two rows above can carry different answers on the same page.
The going rate
Not published by the state in the materials reviewed this session.
How it works
An individual already approved for an Alabama Medicaid Home and Community-Based Waiver (Elderly and Disabled, Alabama Community Transition, Technology Assisted, or SAIL, each with its own waiver-specific contact point) can elect Personal Choices instead of an agency-model provider. A Personal Choices Counselor converts the person’s approved waiver services (for example Homemaker and Personal Care hours) into a monthly Individual Budget, visiting the home to set it up and again about every six months after that. The participant, or a named Personal Representative if they cannot manage it alone, then uses that budget to recruit, hire, schedule, and pay their own personal assistant directly, including a relative or, per the state’s own worked budget example, a spouse. A required Financial Management Services Agency (FMSA), Acumen Fiscal Agent as of the state’s current 2026 pay schedule, sits between the participant and the worker: it runs payroll, withholds employer taxes, and issues payment on a fixed biweekly schedule once the participant approves the worker’s electronically submitted time. Skilled medical or nursing tasks may not be performed by a paid Personal Choices employee under any relationship; if the participant needs that kind of care, a separately qualified family member (or an agency) must provide it instead.
What this doesn’t answer
Alabama Medicaid’s own program page (medicaid.alabama.gov) describes only the general shape of Personal Choices (self-direction, a budget, a hired caregiver) and does not itself spell out family or spousal eligibility in so many words; that page’s HTTPS certificate also failed standard verification this session (SSL certificate chain error), consistent with this state’s documented pattern of hard-to-fetch official sites, and had to be retrieved with certificate verification disabled to read the underlying content, which itself loaded normally once fetched that way. The affirmative family-hire and spouse-hire findings above instead rest on the Alabama Department of Senior Services’ own hosted 2023 Personal Choices Handbook (a joint publication built from the Alabama Department of Rehabilitation Services’ PAS Manual and other state-referenced sources) and its attached official ADSS/Alabama-Medicaid spending-plan form (form codes ADSS PCSP 08/2019, PC-13-A Rev 01/17/2023, PC-15 Rev 03/13/23), whose worked sample plan lists a paid employee’s relationship as “Spouse.” No sentence in the materials read this session states a categorical rule (e.g., an explicit spousal exclusion or a documented-necessity exception) the way several other states’ waiver text does; the Yes/Yes verdict here is drawn from what the state’s own handbook and sample form actually show being paid, not from a stated policy rule, so it is possible a narrower eligibility condition exists in the full Personal Choices policy manual that was not located in the excerpts read this session. On pay rate: the 2023 handbook’s own worked examples ($13.00/hour for the sample spousal employee; a separate $7.50/hour part-time-assistant want-ad example; a Homemaker waiver rate of $17.36/hour and a Personal Care waiver rate of $17.68/hour, both dated to an October 2022/2023 fee schedule per the handbook and corroborating search snippets) are stale, worked-example, or waiver-reimbursement figures, not a current, published take-home wage the state sets for a Personal Choices worker in 2026; the current FMSA’s own webpage (alabamaageline.gov/personal-choices) links only to a payment-date calendar (“AL ADSS 2026-2027 Pay Schedule,” revised Aug. 10, 2026) covering when payroll runs are issued, not what a worker is paid per hour, so no current dollar rate is asserted, and the rate field is left unverified rather than restated from a stale 2022/2023 figure.
Sources
- Alabama Medicaid Agency: Personal Choices program page
- Alabama Department of Senior Services (ADSS): Personal Choices page, current as of Aug. 10, 2026
- Alabama Department of Senior Services: Personal Choices Handbook (2023), including the ADSS/Alabama Medicaid Spending Plan sample form
- Central Alabama Aging (regional Area Agency on Aging administering Personal Choices for the E&D Waiver): Personal Choices Fact Sheet, dated March 5, 2025
- Alabama Department of Senior Services / Acumen Fiscal Agent: Personal Choices Payment Schedule, effective July 2026 to June 2027 (rev. Aug. 10, 2026)
Read September 17, 2026.
Related: the private-pay caregiver-agreement rule · the household-employee tax rules once you’re being paid · what family caregiving actually costs unpaid.
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