Updated August 4, 2026. Quick answer: in the first week almost nothing financial is urgent except the funeral contract and not closing accounts. Most of what feels urgent has a deadline measured in months, and the things that genuinely cannot be missed — the year-of-death RMD, the creditor window, the estate tax return — arrive later and quietly. This is the sequence, by when it actually matters. Every line links to the page that answers it.
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The first week
Two decisions here have money consequences that are hard to reverse. Everything else can wait.
- Work out who is signing for the funeral — the person who signs the contract can be personally liable, and that is not automatically the estate
- Ask for an itemised price list — the FTC Funeral Rule entitles you to one before you agree to anything
- Check veterans’ burial benefits — routinely unclaimed, and they have to be claimed at the time
- Report the death to Social Security — and understand the lump-sum death payment, which is small and time-limited
- Do not close accounts yet — the estate needs its own EIN and bank account before money moves anywhere
The one that costs the most: closing or emptying accounts before the estate exists. It creates a paper trail that has to be unwound later and can make a personal representative personally liable for money they no longer hold.
The first month
This is where the shape of the whole job is decided — whether probate opens at all, and who is responsible for what.
- Establish whether probate is needed at all — many estates never open one
- Check the small-estate threshold in the state — an affidavit can replace probate entirely below it
- Read the whole sequence once before starting it — the order of operations is what prevents personal liability
- Understand what the executor is personally on the hook for — paying the wrong creditor first is the classic trap
- Note the creditor claim window — it starts on a date and it closes on a date
- Run the deadline calculator — the dated sequence of filings and elections, computed
The first year
The deadlines with real teeth are in this block, and none of them announce themselves.
- Get the inherited-IRA election right — the 10-year rule, the annual-RMD overlay, and the beneficiary categories
- Take the year-of-death RMD if one is owed — the deadline does not move because someone died
- For a surviving spouse, choose the election deliberately — rollover and inherited IRA are not the same account and the choice is hard to undo
- Check whether Form 706 is due — it can be due even when no tax is owed, and portability depends on filing it
- File the estate’s own income tax return — Form 1041 is separate from the decedent’s final 1040
- Price the stepped-up basis before selling anything — the gain that survives the step-up is the part people miss
- Plan for the survivor’s tax cliff — joint to single brackets is a permanent change, not a one-year event
- Know what probate will cost in that state — statute-cited fee model, schedule and filing fee for all 51 jurisdictions
What this checklist does not do
It does not tell you who inherits — that is the will, or if there was none, the state’s intestacy statute. It does not price the job: use the probate cost calculator and the executor fee calculator for that. And it is not legal advice — where an estate is contested, insolvent, or spans two states, the sequence above is the part a lawyer will want you to have done, not a substitute for one.
The whole estate machine — documents, process, taxes, tools — is on the estate planning front door. Method: methodology. Mistakes: corrections.
If there is a reverse mortgage on the house: a 30-day clock starts from the due-and-payable notice, and heirs are never personally liable for the balance. What heirs actually owe, quoted from the regulation.
If you are the surviving spouse: the decisions that affect you personally are mostly irreversible rather than urgent — the Social Security claiming order above all. The surviving-spouse checklist routes each one to the page that answers it. No asks, no referrals.
The car is its own job, and it has a deadline the others do not. Insurance in the deceased person’s name can lapse while the title is still being sorted — how a car title transfers after a death, including the states where a vehicle moves regardless of its value.
On any life insurance claim in the first month: the death benefit is income-tax-free to the beneficiary, but whether it is inside the taxable estate depends on who owned the policy. Those are two different questions and they have different answers.
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